You see, my daughter had HORRIBLE cycles. She was a skinny little 12-year-old in 2014 and watching her go through what she went through every month was torture. She spent 2-4 days every month curled up in a ball on her bed, unable to move, hardly eating, and often in tears. I know some of you know EXACTLY what I'm talking about. She was anemic, losing way too much blood, and it seemed so hopeless. She was depressed and I was fearful. I felt powerless as a mom because I knew that if I took her to the doctor, they would probably send us home with birth control. I didn't want to go there! I didn't want to put a 'bandaid' on the problem because I knew there had to be an answer!
So, I began doing research. We worked with a nutritionist. We had bloodwork done. I found a list of essential oils and supplements that we began trying. I was throwing everything that I could at her, hoping SOMETHING would magically work. We would see a tiny change here and there, which was a BIG win with as intense as the situation was, but I was confused as to why we were't seeing BIG changes.
Until, one day, I ran out of laundry detergent and shampoo.
Then there was the shampoo. My daughter wanted to smell YUMMY. All her friends smelled YUMMY. So I found a shampoo at the health food store that had a clean-ish label and smelled YUMMY. Win-win, right?
What I didn’t realize, however, was that there were hidden ingredients in both that were wreaking havoc on my daughter’s hormones…. and ALL of our hormones. When we ran out of the laundry detergent and shampoo, we were ‘forced’ to use the Thieves Laundry Detergent and Lavender Shampoo that we had on the shelves. When I had tried the Thieves Laundry Detergent before, I thought it worked well, but I missed the ‘clean’ aroma that my eco-friendly stuff had. The Lavender Shampoo was AMAZING, but was lacking in the ‘lingering-YUMMY-aroma’ department.
So they had been shelved.
Until we were desperate.
Friends, it was unicorn-esque how quickly the changes happened. Getting rid of poisonous personal care products in our home changed EVERYTHING. Our hormones were no longer confused. They were able to do their HAPPY job. Because, you see, the ingredients that were hiding were telling our bodies that we had mega estrogen. They mimic estrogen, which sent the message to the progesterone that it could take a hike. Talk about confusing our bodies! (If you want to research this more, do a Google search on xenoestrogens, because that is EXACTLY what was happening in our home and is the ROOT to most hormonal issues from infertility, to menopause, to low libido, low energy, mood swings, etc.)
So, please. If you care about your hormones, avoid these things:
PERFUME (don’t wear it!)
MOST LAUNDRY DETERGENT (it has hidden ingredients that are BAD, even the 'natural' ones)
FRAGRANCE (that one word in an ingredient list is full of poison—hundreds of toxic chemicals)
HOUSEHOLD CLEANERS (fragrances, bleach, and many other harmful ingredients that aren't labeled)
What do we use?
We use products that FEED our bodies. Products with ingredients that are so pure, we could eat them. We don’t, because that would be weird, but we COULD.
We use:
Lavender Volume Shampoo & Conditioner
Kidscents Tangerine Shampoo
Lemon Sandalwood Bar Soap
Lavender Hand & Body Lotion
Savvy Mineral Makeup
Thieves Household Cleaner
DIY Essential Oil Perfume
I found that for the same price, I could switch out the poisonous-products with life-giving products. How amazing is that?!? This Mama Bear is HAPPY.
And so is her daughter..... who is now 19 and thriving.
If you have ever diffused essential oils, you know how beautiful the aromas can be. Having pleasant aromas is wonderful on it's own, but let's take a look at why WHAT we're breathing is so important, and how breathing pure essential oils can bring a level of health and emotional support that goes far beyond what we would have ever thought.
I have always loved aromas. I used to be a big-time candle burner. I wanted the laundry detergent that smelled really 'fresh.' After I cleaned my home, I wanted it to smell sterile. But what I didn't know is that those fragrances were actually harming me. You see, I thought we were healthy. We ate mostly organic, not much dairy, wheat, or sugar. We had an active lifestyle. So when my husband was knocked down with Lyme Disease for 3 years, and I was diagnosed with melanoma right in the midst of his struggle, it was sobering. It was many things, but with as hard as I worked to do what was good for my family, I felt defeated. If the lifestyle we were living wasn't enough, what was?
But then, I began doing some research. As we were using essential oils in our home, I was amazed at the changes I was seeing and wanted to know why it was working.... it was like nothing I had ever experienced!
PubMed lists around 300 articles on the wellness benefits of using essential oils, many of which are specific to diffusing. (Check out ‘lavender and aromatherapy’ in PubMed to get a good start into further learning.) Diffusing is calming to the mind, body and emotions, which in turn has a profound impact on our overall wellness. This is because essential oils activate the limbic region of the brain which controls our emotional and hormonal responses to our environment.
The limbic region is complex. Below are a few pieces to the puzzle:
• Hippocampus: responsible for memory, focus and motor control
• Amygdala: stores fear and anxious memories
• Hypothalamus: regulates hormones
• Septal Nuclei: responds with pleasure to positive reinforcement
• Cingulate Cortex: processes memory and emotions
• Parahippocampal Gyrus: also involved in memory
As you can see, the limbic region of the brain is a key in regulating emotions such as anger, fear, security, and pleasure, along with storing memories and our learning functions. Every time we breathe, we send air, vapors and aromas into the limbic region of the brain. This is wonderful when we are talking about pure essential oils, but what about toxins? What about all the candles I was burning, the perfume I was wearing, the cleaners, laundry detergent, hairspray........
All of that was just in my home! Think about the air we breathe daily. Gas stations, strong detergents and bleach through the grocery store, toxic candles, plug-ins and perfumes, hand soap, lotion, smoke, paints, etc. There is so much around us that we can’t control that we breathe in on a daily basis that gets into such an important part of the brain! This can have a PROFOUND impact on our health. More so than I believe we even realize. You see, any kind of artificial fragrance wreaks havoc on our hormones, and our hormones are a KEY to health. Our hormones give us more than warm fuzzies. They give us energy, strength, good emotions, and more. It is any wonder so many of us are tired, crabby, and apathetic? All day long our hormones are under stress, and at some point they have just had enough. The reserves are gone, and along with that so are our emotions, energy, sex drive, and immune system. Our brains have no more ‘reserves’ to send the proper signals to the rest of the body.
How about you? Where would you say you fit on a ‘happy air’ scale?
Take a moment to think through your day. What aromas are you breathing in as you get ready for the day? As you clean your home, wash your dishes and clothes, and go about your normal activities. How healthy would you rate your breathing? Be sure to check labels! Even brands labeled as natural and organic can have hidden fragrances.
Once again, essential oils to the rescue! Because of their unique ability to restore balance to the functions of the body, and the power they have in positively impacting the limbic region of the brain, diffusing is a KEY to overall health. We sure have seen it over and over again in our home! During the day, the diffuser is feeding signals to be happy, alert, focused, and balanced. At night, it is sending signals to rest and restore. These signals and messages can change everything.
If you haven’t yet today, head on over to your diffuser, grab your favorite oil, put 6-15 drops in it and turn it on. Try diffusing Lavender or Stress Away at bedtime. In the morning, try Peppermint and Lemon. In the afternoon, do Frankincense, Copaiba and Lemon. Commit to duffusing during the day AND night for a month and notice the changes you see in your home, health, and emotions. Do you have more energy? Is your outlook on life brighter? Are you happier?
My friends, you are in for a treat!
